Why do Twin Flames meet later in life?
Twin Flames are not the typical romance fairy tales that we have been fed since childhood and to expect that they will follow the traditional paradigms of relationships where we can plan and set timelines and milestones for dating and courting would be futile.
However, there are a lot of reasons that suggest that Twin Flames meet later in their lives:
1). Twin Flame relationships are a path to Enlightenment and serve a higher purpose
Your Twin Flame will be your biggest catalyst on the enlightenment journey.
“Enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. It’s seeing through the facade of pretense. It’s the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true.” – Adyashanti
This type of love is not easy because they will shine a spotlight on all the facades, fears and excuses that keep you from becoming who you really are. You will have to level up in every way because a tiny cup of ego can’t hold an ocean of the unconditional love that twin flame relationship brings.
Therefore twin flames plan their meetings later in life when their souls are mature enough to embark on the awakening journey together.
2). Twin Flames relationships happen between advanced souls who have done the growth work
Before twin flames come together in union, they work on their soul lessons and soul contracts. Each twin flame might have to be in various other soul mates and karmic relationships to fulfill soul contracts and learn soul lessons before they can meet each other.
Twin flame relationships manifest only between advanced souls who have mastered their soul lessons and who can hold the frequency of unconditional love.
They meet later in life because it takes a lot of years and life experience for them to uncover their soul gifts and share them with the world.
3). Masculine and feminine energies balance
There is no place for codependency or manipulation in the twin flame relationship which embodies the highest frequency of unconditional love.
When we grow spiritually and emotionally, we balance our inner masculine and feminine energies. When we are balanced within, we will attract a counterpart that is balanced too.
And therefore twin flame meetings will happen only after we have done enough work on ourselves to balance our yin and yang.